Show Notes
The most dangerous attack surface isn’t your infrastructure, it’s desire under pressure. When people are emotional, impulsive, and hoping for connection, security controls don’t fail… judgment does.
Ron sits down with George Al-Koura, CISO at Ruby Life, to talk about securing some of the most psychologically sensitive data on the internet, and why dating data can carry more real-world risk than financial data. From the fallout of the Tea dating-safety app breaches to impulse-driven human behavior, sexual science, and intel-driven security, this conversation cuts straight to the uncomfortable truth: protecting users means understanding how people actually behave when emotion overrides logic.
Impactful Moments 00:00 - Introduction 01:45 - Tea app breach reality-check 04:26 - Why George chose Ruby Life 09:10 - Dating data hits harder 11:52 - Competitors refuse threat sharing 16:15- AI boosts social engineering 18:47 - Horny brains create risk 19:49 - Sexual science meets security 21:20 - AI avatars dating first 33:13 - Trust is earned in layers
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